Thoughts on Female Domination & a Few Updates

I hope that your New Year is off to a good start! I had a lot of company over the holidays and was very busy. Thank you for your thoughtful emails and gifts. I’m working on some projects now that I hope to roll out by next month so please stay tune.

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Do you have Facebook? Join me for some kinky social networking

I finally broke down and joined Facebook! If you have a Facebook account add me as a friend, however be careful it’s not a family account or an account you don’t mind getting adult exchange. It’s probably a good idea to create a kinky facebook account.

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The Mistress Experience – Making Your Summer Sizzle

Last month I posted the article

How to Have the Most Fulfilling Sexual Submissive Fantasy Life EVER!

In this article we explored how you can balance your erotic alter, the sexual submissive side of your desires. By defining the aspects of your sexual needs and then balancing this with your everyday lifestyle, you . . . → Read More: The Mistress Experience – Making Your Summer Sizzle


 

How to Have the Most Fulfilling Sexual Submissive Fantasy Life EVER!

Being a Dominant Mistress is MY Fantasy - What's yours?

You’ve harbored sexual submissive fantasies for years.  You’ve spent countless hours hunting the internet for femdom porn and spent thousands on mistress phone sex.  No matter what you do there remains a longing inside. There’s an itch that you just can’t scratch growing stronger and causing frustration, resentment and conflict in every area of your life.  The obsession grows causing you to do things you normally would never do just to get that rush in hopes of finally obtaining the goal of fulfilling your sexual needs.

What if I promised you that you could fulfill all of your sexual fantasies in a way that would not only fulfills your sexual needs but enhance every single area of your life?  Could you commit to that?

Ideally we all want the perfect relationship and to be in love, however it’s really near to impossible to get everything you need in one person.  Sure you’d love to find a wife that is kinky and dominant but are you really going to want that to be part of your day to day reality? It’s pretty damn hard to balance a day to day partnership where someone must always be in control. After all isn’t this why you want to escape and lose some of that control?  Even the most open-minded woman that agrees to marry you considering your fetishes and kinky sexual will grow tired of your sexual neediness and passive aggressive attempts.  I know it doesn’t seem this way but in HER eyes this is exactly the impression she is getting.

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Female Authority and Relationships

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This is an essay I asked one of my pets to write after we struggled a bit on our first introduction. I thought he wanted more of a dynamic, which is why he pursued me, instead of the typical fantasy phone sex session. I could see that he wasn’t buying any of it, all that control and femdom stuff, so I quickly switched my gears into phone sex mistress and let him have what he paid for. I did explain to him that if he wanted more for “us” things would need to be different and all he had to do was make a commitment to it. He did and I asked him to write an essay on feminine authority and our relationship.

I’m still not sure if I’ll take this journey with him or not. I wanted to share this essay and open a discussion on the topic of female authority, female domination and feminine control. Please share your ideas, concerns or questions. I am revamping an old blog that will completely be just about female domination. If you’re sincerely interested in this add your name to my Feminine Authority newsletter located on the left.

Female Authority and Relationships
By
Ladyspet

There are two sexes in humankind, male and female. But only one has the power to bring forth life, to nurture it and bring that life to its fullest potential and that is the female. It is from this natural fact of life that gives her authority over the male. She has the power to bring forth from the male the best that is in him. He for his part must be willing to relinquish control and give that control over to the woman. If he fights her control or is afraid of it he loses. If he hangs on to his male ego, refuses to let go of his macho self image, fears what the rest of the world will think of him because he allows a woman to lead him when the world expects him to be a man, to be the one in charge of his woman, he loses. If he ever wants to know the fullest joy of intimacy with the woman of his dreams he must let the woman lead him there, to bring out his natural romantic nature and desire to please her. He can’t do it alone, it is the woman who can bring it out of him and breathe life into his being.

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